Premarital Counseling
Building a Strong Foundation for Marriage
Congratulations on your engagement! This is an exciting time! Many couples will spend hours thinking about bridal arrangements, invitation lists, and honeymoon get-away dreams. Plus, there’s another thing to get excited about—establishing a strong foundation for your adventure together. That’s exactly what Prepare & Enrich premarital counseling is designed to do. This personalized program equips you with the insights, tools, and understanding you need for a lifelong, fulfilling partnership.
What was once adorable has a way of becoming unavoidable.
Why Choose Prepare & Enrich Premarital Counseling?
Prepare & Enrich is a research-based program specifically designed to support couples like you. You’ll discover your values, needs, and emotional connection points so you can work to build a strong, resilient relationship. It starts with a personalized assessment that you’ll take before we meet that will offer a treasure trove of insights about you and your beloved. Then, we’ll embark on intentional exercises and discussions that will help you gain a deeper understanding of each other. But we won’t stop there. We’ll discuss practical skills for managing conflicts and lay the groundwork for a successful marriage.
What to Expect
Initial Consultation
First, I will visit with you both to learn about your relationship, including your challenges and hopes for your future marriage. I’ll introduce you to the Prepare & Enrich program so you will have what you need to make the most of this powerful guide.
Assessment Tailored to You
The Prepare & Enrich program comes with an online assessment. Allow approximately 20 minutes to complete at home (more if you are someone who loves to give deep thought to relationship dynamics). The assessment will lead you through prompts that explore 10 core scales of relationship health. You’ll explore your positions on communication, conflict resolution, financial planning, and family expectations.
Premarital Sessions
We don’t know what we don’t know, and many newlyweds experience plenty of surprises. What was once adorable has a way of becoming unavoidable. We’ll cover areas you may not have thought of and explore challenges that if left unresolved, could drive a wedge between you.
Communication
Do you know your fiancee’s communication style? Don’t get stuck trying to defend. Instead, seek to understand by combining clarity, vulnerability, and empathy.
Finances
Most couples have someone who is more of a free spirit, while the other is more of a saver. Both are wonderful goals, but this is also where many couples run into trouble. Discuss your financial goals before you enter into a lifelong partnership
Conflict Resolution
Disagreements will come. And many will resurface again and again. When they do, don’t get caught flat-footed. Discover strategies for handling disagreements while maintaining your connection.
Expectations
Movies, social media, and our culture paint a picture of romance, but have you discussed the realities of marriage? We’ll discuss your hopes for your careers, roles you’ll play in your family, and being parents.
Intimacy & Closeness
How do successful couples stay connected and encourage intimacy? We’ll explore ways that you can continue to support and nurture one another in a safe and committed relationship.
The Benefits of Premarital Counseling
Prepare & Enrich is extremely practical, with tools you can use right away and throughout your marriage. You’ll walk away knowing:
Your strengths that help you flourish and areas where you can encourage one another.
Your personality differences so that instead of fighting over different perspectives, you can handle disagreements.
Your more complete vision for your future together.
Discount
Plus, couples can receive a discount on their marriage license application by obtaining a premarital education certificate that states they have received 12 hours of premarital education.
Invest in Your Marriage
Spending time together with a counselor who will help you tackle the big questions can pay big dividends. Many couples who have gone through Prepare & Enrich will tell you it is one of the most valuable investments they have made in their future together. If you’re ready to start your journey with clarity and connection, schedule a consultation with me today.
